Leaving "home"

It's been more than a month since our last posts—and a LOT has changed. Just days before we were to fly to the US for our niece's wedding (Sept 28), B got a call. He was asked to return to the US for 5-6 months to run his former plant.Sort of a company emergency. "Oh, boy!" We already had our FR visas, our tickets to FR and were planning our sea shipment of our stuff. I think this deserves another, "Oh, boy!" We went ahead and traveled to the US for the wedding (one week only) and then we returned to figure it all out. We have been told our FR visas can be canceled since we didn't actually travel to FR (we will have to start the process over again early next year), tax implications were explored, our sea shipment was changed to an air shipment- these are just a few of the details. B's new FR boss would wait for him until the spring. We had tickets to FR on October 15 but still managed to fly out on that same day flying instead to the US. So... we are back in the US for 5-6 months and will be moving again to FR early next spring. Note - This says nothing about typhoon Hagibis which hit Tokyo three days before we were to fly out. I am sure you can imagine the extra stress this added. Our flights took us through Tokyo airport! 

We both are having a difficult time with this transition. The new plant was B's baby! He did the impossible. He had also mentored so many staff members. There were lots of tears on his departure and lots of requests for photos with him.  One of the gifts B received was this very large photo that was cut into puzzle pieces and assembled and framed.  This is the plant!

I was very involved with the American Women's Association and my stitching/knitting/quilting group for most of the 5 years here. I will miss the working relationships and my friends, though many of  my friends had already moved on to new locations.  I now have friends living all over the world. There were lots of tears at my goodbye events as well. It is always difficult when you relocate a lot. You have a choice, be independent and not form bonds so you don't have to go through the the tough stuff when you leave, or go ahead and form those bonds. Life here really required the bonds, so no other choice really. I received a gorgeous king size quilt in shades of blue and white batiks and two "mini" quilts as mementos. From my stitching friends?A mini-quilt about 18X18 inches:

From my AWA friends: 

Packing days- October 9,10 Ibu Tin, Pak Rapiudin and Oky helped out!

Wardrobes are self created and dependent on need (size) and number (amount of stuff). "Doors" can be any shape. 

We had to say goodbye to our driver Pak Oky and Ibu Tin (both with us the full 5 years) and also Pak Rapiudin (with us since February, 2018). This was incredibly difficult and we both continue to think about them and wonder how they are doing. Ibu Tin cried every time I looked at her during the last few days. We became a family and we were breaking up the family. They all have new positions and we provided large bonuses for them but it's only money. We said goodbye to Pak Rapiudin after he drove us to dinner on October 14. I wrote him a letter  (in Bahasa) apologizing for my poor ability to speak Bahasa but explaining we really appreciated his excellent driving and attitude. He is a very nice, gentle and helpful man. He requested a photo when we returned to the apartment. Sorry, slightly blurry. 

Tin asked to go with us to the airport. Only problem? We left for the airport at 3 am. She was happy to stay at the apartment the night before so she could go with us. More tears at the airport. It was really hard. B, Ibu Tin and I shot this group selfie on October 14 as well.

 We weren't able to get a group shot with Pak Oky, but here is a photo taken from 2014.